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Wednesday, 25 February 2009

  • Ethics

     Everyone has their own set of ethics. What are your ethics? What do you think influences your ethics? I find this subject very interesting. Also, do you know the ethics of your friends? It's funny because you could be friends with someone with complete opposite values.

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Wednesday, 18 February 2009

  • Do I do it?...HELP?!?!

     "-Megan,

     I have been with the same guy forever and a half now and I truely love and care about him. But lately he's been starting to treat me badly and no matter how many times I say something, he never thinks he's doing anything wrong. I'm not a bad looking girl, matter of fact before I was with my boyfriend I was quite the catch. Since we've been together there have been some guys who told me you know, if you and your man ever split here's my number... type comments. I didn't think anything of it at first. But he's been acting lately like he would be fine if I left. We've spent so much time together that I don't think I could handle being without him, ever. Now there's a guy who's trying to talk to me, he's not someone I'm truely interesting in but I think I could make an example to my boyfriend outta him. (it wouldnt be using him b/c he's only interested in one thing and has made that very clear) BUT I don't mean cheat, I'm not a cheater. I just want him to see this other guy wanting me so badly, I want him to know that because we've been together for so long, doesn't mean that I'm not the same girl he worked for 4 months to be with. I want him to see I'm still important and I'm still wanted by other people. I want him to feel like he HAS to treat me better or someone will steal me away. What do I do Megan? I'm so confused, I love him and I don't want to leave but he's hurting me by doing this. I've talked to him time and time again but nothing gets through to him. Help me, please!!"

    purple=Asker

    Pink= Megan

     Well asker you're in a tight spot. I think that you should try to talk to him again. Maybe you can tell him that if he doesn't change his act he'll lose you. I'm personally stumped on this problem, uhh... lets ask our fellow Xangian's what do you think she should do? I hope your advice is better then mine but this is a hard problem!! Sorry Asker, my advice isn't as good as you'd hoped but I will find you some advice I promise!  

Monday, 16 February 2009

  • He's Hot, She's Hotter...HELP!?!

    "Dear Megan,

          I have been dating guys since I was about 14 and had my first boyfriend. I always had my prefrences but I loved guys who were  hot! So its not a surprise that I am with a hotter guy now. But whenever we are out together and I see a hot girl I can't help but stare. I feel more attracted to females then I do to even the hottest of males. But I have often been guilty of pretending to myself during sex that my partner was a girl. I have never said anything to my boyfriend because I'm sure it would break his ego. What do I do?? If I tell my boyfriend I might be interesting in girls more then guys he will probably think I am trying to come up with a lame excuse to leave him but really the only thing that really gets me fired up is a sexy girl walking around showing off what she's got. Do I tell my boyfriend? And I'm pretty sure my family wouldn't understand... How do I tell my family? "

    pink= Asker

    Yellow= Me

     Well I do believe that if your boyfriend really cares about you telling him would be the best thing to do. Not to mention if you say it the right way it may lead to some interesting guy/girl hook up with your hot boyfriend, you and a third party. I mean don't rule that out before you think about it. But, your family is always the toughest audience. The best thing to say to your family, would be to tell them you're interests and then make sure you tell them you're still the same person. And that you will remain that person, you are just now learning more about who you truely are. And know that exceptance isn't always everything, and you can't change the way some people are. But these are some pretty tough qeustions lets just ast our fellow Xangian's what their opinions are on the matter. So what do you think she should do?

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